Birth Announcement: Welcome Baby Polly

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Parents, their surrogate and Baby Polly are all happy and healthy. We want to thank the family for sending along these photos. She’s absolutely precious.

Early this week we posted this photo on facebook and our community erupted with support and well wishes. When we see all those little acts of kindness, our hearts are warmed. At Circle, we feel incredibly lucky to be able to do the work we do–the help build families.  baby facebook

Nothing can compare to the selflessness of our surrogates who show all of us the true meaning of generosity.

To see more birth announcements, newsworthy surrogacy articles and more, join us on facebook at

We’re Creating a New Surrogate T-Shirt

We’re designing a new surrogate t-shirt and we need your help. Here is our idea but if you have thoughts, ideas, links or photos, please share them with us in the comment section below.

And, if you don’t mind, tell us what you think of the design we did come up with. Rate of 1 to 10! Thanks for your help.

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Birth Announcement: Healthy Baby!

Thank you to Circle surrogate Jobeth, who gave these parents a wonderful gift of a beautiful healthy baby girl, for sharing these wonderful photos with us.

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For parents and surrogates, who want to share photos, we are always happy to make birth announcements and show photos from a year, two years, 12 years later. We love keeping in touch.

To give you a little background, we only reveal whatever personal information you feel comfortable with. However, we never share last names or where the surrogate or parents are from.

If you have photos and/or stories you want to share with us send them to:

Thank you!

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What’s New: Exciting Changes to Our Surrogate Program

We’re always looking for ways to improve the overall experience for our surrogates, intended parents, and egg donors. Here are a few examples of some recent improvements we implemented to make our surrogate program better:

1. New Facebook support group. We’ve always offered a forum for Circle surrogates to share their experiences, ask questions, and support each other. Recently, we changed the format of this forum to a Facebook group since it’s a platform everyone is more familiar with. Surrogates have the chance to access the private Facebook group once they join our program. There, surrogates can exchange questions, comments, and support one another throughout Circle’s program.

2. Updated Surrogate Compensation Package

  • Transfer fee is now $750
  • C-section fee is now $2,500
  • One month of housekeeping is included for all surrogates at $100/week
  • Standard compensation for breastmilk pumping in addition to reimbursement of supplies (if IPs request)

3. New monthly group video call check-ins. Our social workers are now hosting monthly group video calls for surrogates at various stages of the process. These calls provide another avenue for surrogates to ask questions and get support.

4. More opportunities to provide feedback. Many of the recent changes we have made have come from suggestions from our surrogates. Feedback helps make better improvements. Surrogates are encouraged to provide comments and suggestions to their program coordinators and social workers throughout the process. We also ask surrogates to give us their overall thoughts in an exit interview after the journey.

In addition, we introduced additional avenues for feedback:

  • Post-Match Surveys about the application, screening, and matching processes
  • suggestion box for anonymous feedback at any point in the process
  • Clinic feedback surveys about recent trips to your IVF clinic

5. Improved medical billing administration. We’ve recently partnered with NES Assurance to help us manage medical billing. Surrogates will have access to an online portal where they can upload bills, track the status of payments, and request reimbursement. This new streamlined system should help everyone stay on the same page about hospital and provider bills.

We have more improvements coming soon, including:

  • a clear and concise guide to insurance questions for surrogates
  • a mentor system that allows experienced surrogates to match up with women who are just getting started
  • an interactive map that will allow Circle surrogates to find other women near them to meet in person
  • a series of videos that explain various aspects of the process

We look forward to sharing these additional changes with you soon. If you have any comments or suggestions, let us know.

Elizabeth Banks Thoughts on Surrogacy

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Around 10 percent of couples are affected by infertility in addition to gay couples many of whom would like to build families. Surrogacy has become one of the most viable options for couples who cannot conceive. Even though it is far more common today than it was 20 years ago when we got our start, it’s still new to the world in a lot of ways.

Most of the stories we hear in the media are the one in 10,000 stories, which overshadow the thousands of babies who are being born into beautiful, loving families due to the generosity of surrogates from several different states. Not to mention, those sensationalized stories often leave out pertinent facts to give readers proper context.

That’s why when a star like Elizabeth Banks–who you probably know from the Hunger Games series, 30 Rock, Modern Family and Wet Hot American Summer–speaks out about surrogacy, it’s a powerful gesture to the kids born via surrogacy, parents via surrogacy and surrogates.

Elizabeth Banks and husband Max Handelman have welcomed both sons–Felix and Magnus–via a surrogate mother.

“This experience has exceeded all expectations, taught us a great deal about generosity and gratitude, and established a relationship that will last a lifetime. I am also so very thankful to our family and friends for their support throughout this process,” she said.

“It was a womb issue for me. Embryos wouldn’t implant,” she said regarding her infertility issues. “It’s a big leap, inviting this person into your life to do this amazing, important thing for you. And it’s hard losing that kind of control. But our surrogate is so extraordinary, and she’s still in our lives. She’s like an auntie.”

That’s great to hear. We applaud, Elizabeth Banks, for speaking candidly about her experience. I hope she knows how much it means to us.

Frozen Gametes: What happens if there is a divorce?

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Circle lawyer Rona Yang wrote an article for the Boston Bar Association explaining–according to the law, what happens to frozen gametes if a couple divorces?

Here is an excerpt from that article:

Approximately 10% of women in the United States between ages 15 and 44 are unable to conceive or bear children. Same-sex couples require non-coital forms of conception to create children. Given the difficulties of adoption, prospective parents who cannot reproduce through sexual means turn to assisted reproductive technology. In its rapid evolution over the past two decades, assisted reproductive technology has become a fertile market for acquiring children, literally and metaphorically. For family law attorneys, this means dealing with the increasing prevalence of frozen gametes in divorces.

Most contracts governing the donation of gametes will stipulate to the disposition of cryopreserved embryos upon separation or divorce. But, what if the parties disagree about the contract provisions after separation or divorce? Intuitively, a family law practitioner would look at the terms of the contract. However, as the case of Baby M has enlightened all first-year law students, contracts are not ironclad; contracts can be invalidated for public policy reasons.  Are contract provisions governing the disposition of unused cryopreserved embryos enforceable against someone who is unwilling to implant that frozen embryo? Read the rest of Yang’s article here.

Welcome Baby Mason Dean!

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Welcome to the world, Mason Dean! He was born September 21, 2015 in the afternoon weighing in at 6lbs., 8oz.

Both Mason and surrogate Terriyaka are doing well. Thank you, Terriyaka, you have given Mason’s parents, Russ and Maria, a wonderful gift.

If you are reading this thinking either, “I would love to build my family but I need to explore an guide to surrogacy for intended parentsalternative like surrogacy,” or “I would love to give the gift of helping another family grow and thrive while also helping my family financially,” we have the perfect guides for you.

Parents, reading our free guide An Introductory to Egg Donation and Surrogacy for Intended Parents will answer your questions about cost and process.

intro guide for surrogates For women considering surrogacy and wondering about the process, requirements and payment, our guide An Introduction to Surrogacy.

Finding a Surrogate Mother: The Process

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Are you ready to embark on your surrogacy journey? To give you a clear picture of what the process of finding a surrogate mother entails we’ve compiled the 9 steps of the surrogacy journey for intended parents.

Over 1000 babies have been born through the following process:

Step #1: Initial Consultation.

Most intended parents start their journey with a free consultation that lasts an average of 2.5 hours depending on the agency. At Circle, you’ll meet with our staff by Skype or in person and learn about the programs and options available, the detailed process of matching with a surrogate, the legal process, any insurance issues, the financial implications, and basic medical information. Prior to your consultation, you’ll complete a basic questionnaire and submit photographs that assist our team in tailoring our services to meet your needs.

Step #2: Officially Becoming an Intended Parent.

To officially join a surrogacy program, you’ll sign a contract. At Circle, this is called an Agreement for Services. Following that, you are asked to transmit a portion of the fees. Next, you are introduced to your program coordination (PC) team that will guide you through every phase of your journey.

Step #3: Screening and Selection Process for an Egg Donor.

Egg donors are young, healthy women between the ages of 21 and 29 who live across the United States. They have had their medical records reviewed by a licensed reproductive endocrinologist and have participated in an intensive social work assessment by a licensed clinician. You can browse our egg donor database, or your program coordinator team can help you to complete an egg donor request form and send you egg donor profiles that match your preferences. Once chosen, your egg donor undergoes psychological testing. Some intended parents choose to bring their own egg donors, who might be family members or friends.

Step #4: Screening and Selection Process for a Surrogate. 

Surrogates are generally 21-41 years old and have undergone a mental health screening prior to being matched with intended parents. A typical screening process involves an extensive medical and psychological assessment as well as thorough criminal and financial background checks. When we have completed the screening process for a surrogate who we think will be a good match based on your preferences and legal needs, we facilitate introductions between the intended parents and the surrogate. This is initially done through profiles, and then by phone or Skype before you meet in person.

Step #5: Legal Agreements.

To ensure clarity and legal appropriateness, the egg donor and surrogate are assigned an independent attorney for representation. As the intended parents, you are represented by attorneys who draft all agreements. Circle’s in-house legal team represents its intended parents.

Step #6: Medical Process.

The process of in vitro fertilization and embryo transfer is managed and completed at an IVF clinic under the leadership of a licensed reproductive endocrinologist. We can direct you to many clinics across the United States that we have established relationships with or work with a different clinic of your choosing.. Your program coordination team manages every step of the process with the clinic for your surrogate and/or egg donor.

Step #7: Pregnancy.

When the joy of pregnancy is achieved, your PC team remains your primary support as you prepare for the birth of your child. They ensure that you and your surrogate are prepared to welcome your child home. Although you and your surrogate can arrange as many additional visits as you agree upon, we suggest you visit your surrogate 3 or 4 times, including, the major doctor appointments and delivery.

Step #8: Legal Representation.

The legal procedures vary from state to state, country to country and your Circle legal representative will explain to you exactly when and what documents will be filed to ensure that you establish parental rights. Intended parents who live outside the United States will have their attorney direct them on obtaining necessary legal documentation to get home with the proper court orders and passports.

Step #9: Birth.

Prior to the birth of your child, your PC team contacts the hospital to ensure they know who you are and why you are there. Finally, your story reaches a new chapter with the birth of your baby.

It is a glorious moment to leave the hospital with your baby in your arms. To take your next step toward becoming a parent, apply to one of Circle’s programs.

Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in June 2013 and has been updated for freshness, accuracy, and comprehensiveness.

Surrogate Profile: Meet Kim

Selfless. Generous. Powerful. Beautiful. Heroic. These words come to mind when you think about gestational carriers aka surrogates. But some surrogates simply believe, “If you’re in a position to help someone, you should.”

That’s what one of Circle’s surrogates, Kim, told us.

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Kim with her family.

“When you have four kids nine months goes by pretty quickly,” says Kim, who is on her second surrogacy journey. This time around she is carrying twins. Sometimes a surrogate will work with the same parent or parents if they would like to have another baby. In this case, she is working with new dads.

Every woman’s path to surrogacy is unique. For Kim, she wanted to make something positive out of her loss. Five years ago when her father died, she went in search of something meaningful. It was around that time she decided to become a surrogate. She was paired with a gay couple on her first journey and helped them build their family. In the process her family grew.

Her kids, one girl and three boys, think of her first baby born through surrogacy like a cousin. They skype. They send photos. They even exchange birthday gifts and Christmas gifts. Their closeness serves as a reminder that we’re more connected to one another than we are divided.

“I feel that family isn’t limited to blood and DNA, it is the people you choose and those who have touched your life,” says Kim.

Because of Kim’s nursing degree, she is very aware of all the need in the world. Kim added that she doesn’t work as a nurse, and her husband doesn’t use his degree either. She and her husband would like to make an even greater contribution to the world.

Right now her husband is back in school pursuing a degree to make both of their dreams come true. The plan is to take his agricultural knowledge and open an organic farm. And with Kim’s love of hospitality as a driving force, they would love to parlay their crops into a farm-to-table restaurant. That’s the dream, but she is receptive to what the world may have in store for her.

“I’m still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up,” Kim added.

Talking to Kim was a great reminder of something we already know—that surrogates are very special individuals who contribute to their family while helping another.


[ To learn more about becoming a surrogate, click here]
[ If you are looking to become a parent through surrogacy, click here. ]